THE TEARS OF LAMENT: Can you return back her soul ???

A TAINTED SOUL CAN NEVER BE HEALED 

I think after a very long tym I m finally penning down sumthing on my blog, i was getting a lot of ideas, but sum recent incidents have really provoked me to write !!

Well.... Every Indian must have been quite aware about the recent Delhi gangrape case. Well these sort of cases come and go in a hurry and we can see them in da corner of the newspapers screaming attention but noone does as we all are civilized and have become busy and there's just no time to stand and stare. :(
But u know wat... we all have lost dat bloody humanity that existed a long tym ago in us. And yes! including me too.... until and unless sumthing really bad happens we just never wake up.... we are just too lazy !!

I m not here to describe abt wat hapnd to the gal, and we better not call her a victim because dat wud be like dishonouring her. Today anybody cud have been in her place, datz not her fault.
I rilli want to find out and discuss reasons dat why such things happen even today provided we have become civilized and dere r slogans going on dat women are equal and work shoulder to shoulder wid men. Then from where does this typical insanity and bias things come from ???

WHY SUD A GAL ALWYZ KEEP QUIET.... WELL ITZ
TIME TO STAND UP AND FIGHT FOR ONESELF !!!

We hear ill-minded people screaming dat "itz da gal's fault !! She sudnt have dressed like dat... if she wud hav dressed more decently den may be she wouldnt have invited such kind of mishap in her life".
This stupid sentence sounds so reasonable to ears... ryt ??
But no...datz da wrong way we are going. What happens wen innocent little gals of barely 6-7 yrs of age are raped, do they also wear indecent clothes and lure their attackers to rape dem ??
And now comes the basic question..... dat is it rilli da dress dat is da prob ???

But itz a note to all those sick ppl screaming..... dat NO.... it's actually the MINDSET OF PEOPLE datz da problem. People dun understand simple things and rather go for complicated ways. People see women as a sex symbol or icon and reserve in a category which has the stamp that they are born to fulfill the man's need. This scene is mostly evident  in the patriarchal society where the women are seen as a diminished gender who sud be seen in the kitchens serving men. They have no right of their own and can't speak of their own mind, even proper education is also not granted to them. They are considered as burden.
There was a typical case in an Indian village where a school going girl was raped. So instead of punishing the man who did the crime, they punished the girl. Shocking isn't it ?
They closed all doors for her and stopped her school, thinking dat the school going only invited all these problems. And out of fear, all other villagers also did da same thinking dat their gals wud come to share da same fate too. But if the villagers had punished the rapist in dat case den may be da whole situation cud have been different.

So my point is...wen ur money gets stolen you dun blame da money, u blame da thief so why cant da same happen in da above cases ?  People rilli need to change their mindset towards gals/women. Stop seeing dem as a property dat can be sold or bought, just in da case of women trafficking. Stand up and fight against dat person who comments on every passing women. Often we walk on da roads and see loafers passing comments and whistling and we just ignore dem. The right kind of action wud be wen...we teach dem a lesson. If we ignore dem, dey come to learn dat we are weak and dey will start doing da same wid other gals and may be one day it will provoke dem to take it to the next level.
Sex and defence education sud be a must in da school. Girls sud be taught sum defence tactics so that dey can defend demselves wen need arrives. Due to Indian culture's preservative condition, sex topics become a complete no-no in public. But with changing times, culture needs to updated so that people can get accustomed, but our culture somewat remains static and people suffer. Children and parents never interact with each other on personal things, talks are simply limited to studies only. Due to which youth remains totally ignorant regarding such vital things and commit mistakes unknowingly or out of rage.

NEVER STAND AND STARE AT SUMTHING BAD.... COZ
THE NEXT CAN BE YOU !!!

The physchopaths who roam about freely commiting rapes, murder consider that they havent something dat wrong. I can remember the case of da gal whose face has been completely marred as two youth threw acid on her face. And da reason was dat she denied to be wid dem. I dun understand... why men in India can't accept dis simple denial. If a gal doesnt wants to be wid you, find someone else. Why destroy her life so that she cant be wid nebody else ? This is da typical male chauvinism who just cant tolerate da failure from a gal. This can be another disadvantage of a patriarchal society that exists in India. And wen da youth were asked abt it, dey said dat dey havent done sumthing dat wrong, dey have only damaged her face, that's all !! :O See...this is how every big crime seems small to their eyes and dey set to do another wrong deed. They fail to understand that their one moment of energy, rage, anger, passion can destroy a gal's life forever. Indirectly they steal away her soul in dat spur of moment. On the whole, our culture comes from our parents, friends and society. If a child sees discrimination towards women at his house, then he ll definitely do da same outside his house, coz datz wat he learnt. So a good family and surrounding is a must too.

OUR RIGHT ATTITUDE TAKES US HIGHER..... ALWAYZ
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF !!!

People do candle marches, peace marches and wat not. But aftr a few days of protest, people forget, govt forgets, the story ends. But the story of pain for da gal who suffered through all of this starts, an endless journey of suffer where she breathes but dere is no soul.

 So before itz too late and we catch around another case of rape, itz better we wake up from our deep sleep and work towards this. We can never help the person who's in pain. We can help her financially but da scars dat have haunted her soul will never fade away. So instead we can help dis damn thing from spreading, by spreading awareness dat women is no object. In our culture, women are worshipped and here we are dishonouring her n tainting her soul. If things will continue da way dey are going den dat day will not be far wen gals fear from coming out of the womb in fear of getting raped, assaulted or molested.
We sud try to understand dat the govt cant do nething in dis matter. It can make stricter rules, bring sum more police but da crime can stop wen v want to. It sud be made sure that da ppl who r doing such heinous crime sudnt get away but sud be given such kind of dreadful punishment which is even more greater dan wat the girl suffered, den may be no odr man will ever dare to commit da same thing again !!


                       A GIRL'S PROGRESS IS A NATION'S NEXT STEP TO DEVELOPMENT !!